I’ve always heard that when a woman falls in love with a guy, they get butterflies in their stomach, they can’t help but think of said guy 24/7, they can’t wait to see his name on facebook chat or any other form of online chat and they will wait for hour to see it. They smile at random times at just the thought of this guy, they miss seeing you and talking to you on the phone all the time. Always thinking of the smallest things that attracted them to the guy in the first place.
Everyone has their quirks, and I personally believe that these said quirks are what attracts someone to another. A girl may say that she loves his: smile, hair, abs, style, eyes, family, friends, faith in God; but in the end it’s the smallest things that no one else notices but the girl. Here’s the kicker, girls might think like this but what most women don’t know is that guys are exactly the same as women when it comes to love.
Us guys, we get butterflies whenever we see the girl we have fallen for. When a guy sees the girl of his dream online and available to chat, his heart is guaranteed to skip a beat. When she talks to us, our face forms into that half-smile; it means we’re trying our hardest to not show it, and are failing miserably. We do miss you all the time, and if it was up to us we’d spend all our time with you. We don’t think of the smallest little things you say, because we think of every word you say. Staying true to all males, we are panicking at every word you say, trying to figure out what you’re really saying, reading between the lines.
A guy that is in love will love his girl in a million different ways. Once a guy starts loving a girl there is no going back for us. No matter how hard a guy may try he will always love a girl that has touched his heart in ways not many girls can. Us guys will think of that girl first thing in the morning when we wake up and she will be the last thing on our minds when we go to sleep. Whenever a guy is walking alone and sees a happy couple, his first instinct is to think of this girl and imagine that couple was really him and the girl is heart has been given to.
Every single detail about her is loved; the way she walks, talks, and speaks. The sound of her voice makes him get goosebumps, her laughter makes us smile, the sparkle in her eye when she’s happy, the smile on her face when she’s shy, the cute face she makes when she’s asleep, all the way down to the way she says our name that just makes our heart explode with joy, a simple thing that no other woman can duplicate.
A guy in love is far from a simple thing, though the ladies of the world would like to think of us guys as simpletons. A man in love is complex. He will be unpredictable. He will be stubborn, persistent, and if it’s needed, carry his girl from one side of the world to the other just to win you heart, a man that’s in love would. A guy in love will give his all to her and ask for nearly nothing in return. A man in love is a gentleman, and will stand up for his lady in any instance even if she tries to tell him no. He will act strange when she’s around because she makes him feel out of this world and that my friends is foreign territory to him.
I write this because I know what it’s like to be in love. To be willing to give everything you have to her and more. Allowing yourself to be more vulnerable than one thought humanly possible. Not everyone has felt this love and not everyone will know it, but everyone at one time or another will encounter this love. It might be with your future spouse or a girlfriend/boyfriend that absolutely stuns you with every passing day. You may not embrace it but everyone is being loved like this every second of every day. The love of God, our father, is limitless and He asks nothing in return.
My name is Matthew and you might be able to tell that love is absolutely driving me insane, but I’ll continue to look for this love every day of my life because it’s beyond worth it.
013: Fred's hand on the Weasley family clock was situated at 'Home' when the family returned to the Burrow. It was only several days later that Molly realized the hand was moving. It was at 'Travelling', and then 'Work', and then finally at 'Home'. When George came walking through the front door, Molly burst into tears. The Fred hand continued to follow his brother's for the rest of George's days.